How can I not be depressed about my dog?

Question by Liz: How can I not be depressed about my dog?
My mom said today that my new 10 mo. old Weimaraner “snapped” at my baby. My baby is hyperactive and she said he did it just cuz my baby sat near him. She hates dogs, mind you. This was the best dog I have ever had and I have wanted one forever. I loved him and cannot stop crying and being depressed and angry at my mom for her selfishness and manipulation (insulted me and the dog, and manipulated me until I broke and sold him to someone else). How can I stop feeling bad like this when I had to rehome the dog? I will never forget the dog’s face when the man took his leash. The man said “My wife has always wanted one of these dogs” I said so have I.

I am in my 20s and live with my mom. She is selfish and crazy.

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Answer by Kelsey and Finny
In your 20′s and living with your mom? Your mom’s house, your mom’s rules. I would put my child before my dog any day. If your baby was in danger of being bitten, the dog should be gone. Maybe you can coordinate something with the new owners so you can still visit him on occasion?

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How can I not be depressed about my dog?

Question by Liz: How can I not be depressed about my dog?
My mom said today that my new 10 mo. old Weimaraner “snapped” at my baby. My baby is hyperactive and she said he did it just cuz my baby sat near him. She hates dogs, mind you. This was the best dog I have ever had and I have wanted one forever. I loved him and cannot stop crying and being depressed and angry at my mom for her selfishness and manipulation (insulted me and the dog, and manipulated me until I broke and sold him to someone else). How can I stop feeling bad like this when I had to rehome the dog? I will never forget the dog’s face when the man took his leash. The man said “My wife has always wanted one of these dogs” I said so have I.

I am in my 20s and live with my mom. She is selfish and crazy.

Best answer:

Answer by Kelsey and Finny
In your 20′s and living with your mom? Your mom’s house, your mom’s rules. I would put my child before my dog any day. If your baby was in danger of being bitten, the dog should be gone. Maybe you can coordinate something with the new owners so you can still visit him on occasion?

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I Think my Dog is Fixated?

Question by wolf.viper: I Think my Dog is Fixated?
Let me first start off on the weather here.
There is snow everywhere and under that snow is ice, which the snow is melting slowly so the roads are a bit slick.
Next, my dog.
My dog is a female Australian Cattle Dog who will be 2 in April and is very hyperactive because I do not walk here but will be soon, and has a bit of aggression towards dogs. And little kids.
And finally, to the question or whatever.
Tonight I took my dog out with the leash because I didn’t want to wait for her to come back, and I myself wanted to walk in my very creepy at night (especially when there is snow everywhere!) wood-like backyard! After I traced the perimeter about 1 time, I took the leash off… With no pee or poop coming out of my dog’s a**. So I decided to go in the front, to check the roads with her. Who knows, maybe I’d have some luck there?
So I traveled to the front, and my dog was great! She did get a bit fixated on the road that eventually leads the entrance of the neighborhood, but when I called her to me she came!
I think now is about time I tell you about… “The Big Black Dog”.
There is a gentle dog opposite of the entrance (you take a right coming out of my driveway to get to the dog and a left to get to the entrance) and, well, my dog wants to really play with it! It’s very gentle, no growling or snarling, but is very hyper! When I walk by it with Kaia, it runs along the fence and Kaia goes absolute crazy, tugging and lunging and barking and whining…
So tonight, what do you know? The Big Black Dog FRICKEN BARKS ONE TIME and my dog immediatly whips around and faces in it’s direction. Her body is stock still, her ears forward, her tail straight up, her body tense.
“Kaia, come here! COME HERE!” I say, trying to sound “dominate”. Her ear doesn’t even twitch.
“KAI-A, CO-ME HE-RE.” I say, very sternly, placing my words with meaning.
She bolts in the direction of the dog.
Okay, so there she leaves me, my nose and ears freezing, my hands too.
I walk slowly and with pride, trying to show her (if she’s looking, ’cause I cannot see for a damn, but now exactly where she’d be) that I mean it.
“Kaia? Kaia, come here…” I whisper. Now this is where I think a failed a bit. I was scared. It was dark, snow everywhere…There are coyotes that hang around my house…
So I find her, and walk a bit closer to her. She looks at me, then bolts around the fence.
I try to get to her, but she just runs.
Now I am pissed.
“Alright, Kaia. I know you’ll come home. I don’t want to get frostbite.. or sick, so I’m leaving. Good luck with you.”
And I walk back home.
I heard her freeze as I turned and took about 6 steps. I heard her collar jingling then stop, and it was like she was looking at my back. I felt guilty, but pushed it away. She WOULD come home.
So I went inside, furious, taking my scarf off. I hear scratching at the garage door. I rish to it, a bit afraid. It could be a coyote! I open it anyway, and Kaia jumps on me.
“Oh, K- No. Sit!” I command, quickly changing from lovy-follower to commanding-leader.
She sits.
“Stay!”
I say while I walk away, unzipping my jacket.
She comes.
I put her back in her place, saying Stay. This repeats three times, till I ultimitly test it out as I go inside for a minute, coming out and seeing her in the exact spots laying down.
I praise her.
Now please, how can I get my dog to not get fixated with The Big Black Dog?
Some might suggest walking by that dog a bunch of times, and I’ve tried that. Didn’t work. I tried letting her sniff around the dog’s fence, didn’t work. I tried making her submit to the dog, didn’t work.
This isn’t just with the big black dog. It’s also with people who walk down the streets, just that it’s a tad different because Kaia just bolts at them without any hesitation.She’ll follow them, jumping up on them (in a friendly way, not that she’s trying to kill them).
Now if they have dogs, Kaia just gets in a bit of a dominance tussle. No blood is spilled, which I learned from the Dog Whisperer means she’s just settling dominance than trying to be aggressive, which is normal in dogs.
So… do you know how to… “unfixate” a dog?

Best answer:

Answer by GramercyGal
All I have to say is, less is more! I have no idea what you’re going on about in this story. Keep your dog on a leash if she is prone to running off and yes, dog’s get fixated – you can stop them by controlling them on a leash.

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I Think my Dog is Fixated?

Question by wolf.viper: I Think my Dog is Fixated?
Let me first start off on the weather here.
There is snow everywhere and under that snow is ice, which the snow is melting slowly so the roads are a bit slick.
Next, my dog.
My dog is a female Australian Cattle Dog who will be 2 in April and is very hyperactive because I do not walk here but will be soon, and has a bit of aggression towards dogs. And little kids.
And finally, to the question or whatever.
Tonight I took my dog out with the leash because I didn’t want to wait for her to come back, and I myself wanted to walk in my very creepy at night (especially when there is snow everywhere!) wood-like backyard! After I traced the perimeter about 1 time, I took the leash off… With no pee or poop coming out of my dog’s a**. So I decided to go in the front, to check the roads with her. Who knows, maybe I’d have some luck there?
So I traveled to the front, and my dog was great! She did get a bit fixated on the road that eventually leads the entrance of the neighborhood, but when I called her to me she came!
I think now is about time I tell you about… “The Big Black Dog”.
There is a gentle dog opposite of the entrance (you take a right coming out of my driveway to get to the dog and a left to get to the entrance) and, well, my dog wants to really play with it! It’s very gentle, no growling or snarling, but is very hyper! When I walk by it with Kaia, it runs along the fence and Kaia goes absolute crazy, tugging and lunging and barking and whining…
So tonight, what do you know? The Big Black Dog FRICKEN BARKS ONE TIME and my dog immediatly whips around and faces in it’s direction. Her body is stock still, her ears forward, her tail straight up, her body tense.
“Kaia, come here! COME HERE!” I say, trying to sound “dominate”. Her ear doesn’t even twitch.
“KAI-A, CO-ME HE-RE.” I say, very sternly, placing my words with meaning.
She bolts in the direction of the dog.
Okay, so there she leaves me, my nose and ears freezing, my hands too.
I walk slowly and with pride, trying to show her (if she’s looking, ’cause I cannot see for a damn, but now exactly where she’d be) that I mean it.
“Kaia? Kaia, come here…” I whisper. Now this is where I think a failed a bit. I was scared. It was dark, snow everywhere…There are coyotes that hang around my house…
So I find her, and walk a bit closer to her. She looks at me, then bolts around the fence.
I try to get to her, but she just runs.
Now I am pissed.
“Alright, Kaia. I know you’ll come home. I don’t want to get frostbite.. or sick, so I’m leaving. Good luck with you.”
And I walk back home.
I heard her freeze as I turned and took about 6 steps. I heard her collar jingling then stop, and it was like she was looking at my back. I felt guilty, but pushed it away. She WOULD come home.
So I went inside, furious, taking my scarf off. I hear scratching at the garage door. I rish to it, a bit afraid. It could be a coyote! I open it anyway, and Kaia jumps on me.
“Oh, K- No. Sit!” I command, quickly changing from lovy-follower to commanding-leader.
She sits.
“Stay!”
I say while I walk away, unzipping my jacket.
She comes.
I put her back in her place, saying Stay. This repeats three times, till I ultimitly test it out as I go inside for a minute, coming out and seeing her in the exact spots laying down.
I praise her.
Now please, how can I get my dog to not get fixated with The Big Black Dog?
Some might suggest walking by that dog a bunch of times, and I’ve tried that. Didn’t work. I tried letting her sniff around the dog’s fence, didn’t work. I tried making her submit to the dog, didn’t work.
This isn’t just with the big black dog. It’s also with people who walk down the streets, just that it’s a tad different because Kaia just bolts at them without any hesitation.She’ll follow them, jumping up on them (in a friendly way, not that she’s trying to kill them).
Now if they have dogs, Kaia just gets in a bit of a dominance tussle. No blood is spilled, which I learned from the Dog Whisperer means she’s just settling dominance than trying to be aggressive, which is normal in dogs.
So… do you know how to… “unfixate” a dog?

Best answer:

Answer by GramercyGal
All I have to say is, less is more! I have no idea what you’re going on about in this story. Keep your dog on a leash if she is prone to running off and yes, dog’s get fixated – you can stop them by controlling them on a leash.

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Am I wrong for getting rid of my dog?

Question by Liz: Am I wrong for getting rid of my dog?
My new Weimaraner *10 mos* seems like a sweet dog.I love the dog. But he constantly follows us around, paces and I cannot leave my hyperactive infant child around him alone. Today my mom said that the dog “snapped” at the baby and I am scheduled to rehome the dog today. I feel sorry for the dog being passed back and forth like a sack of taters. Furthermore, my mom does not like dogs but thinks this one is nice
I bought it from a lady NOT a breeder
he does not have lots of energy he sleeps all day
my mom keeps comparing him to a pit bull and says he will kill the baby shes set on the idea that all large dogs are dangerous

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Answer by Ashley
Yeah i wouldnt get rid of it just go to some classes and the babie might have done somthing to provoke the dog or it was just mis-seen and the dog was not actually snapping. I would give it another chance.

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How do I get a harness and leash/collar and leash on my overly-rambunctious hyperactive dog?

Question by director guy: How do I get a harness and leash/collar and leash on my overly-rambunctious hyperactive dog?
My wife and I have tried everything. We want to take our little Boston Terrier on walks, but getting a harness and leash on him is a nightmare. He’s only 4 months old and hasn’t been neutered yet. Our vet said to get him neutered at about 4 1/2 months, so we think after he’s neutered, he may calm down a bit.
On the flip side, my dog is due for some much needed exercise. Not because we want to calm him down, but we feel throwing a ball in the confines of the house and having him chase after it isn’t exercising him properly. I do realize it’s Winter, so taking him outside on walks isn’t always ideal either, but we’ve had a few nice days, and we feel a healthy walk is in store for him. My puppy’s name is Winston and he doesn’t even wear a collar yet. He is not FULLY vaccinated. My vet said shortly after he’s neutered, he’ll get his rabies vaccination, then we can get our dog licenesed by the city and he can wear a collar and tag all the time.
In the meantime, getting the harness or even a collar on him is a virtual nightmare! I have the scratches on my arm to prove it! He is finnicky, almost as if he doesn’t trust my wife and me! All we want to do is walk him. Sometimes he needs to wear a collar and leash so we can take him to places like Petsmart and Petco. We’ve watched Victoria Stillwell on “It’s Me or the Dog” on Animal Planet, and even got a book on clicker training, but none of their techniques work. We’ve tried de-sensitizing him to the collar and harness by showing him treats and gently letting him lick and sniff the harness to show him that it is harmless. These tricks don’t work.
Has anyone experienced this problem? My dog may bite or scratch the be-jesus out of me next time I attempt to put these on, OR take them off for that matter. Any advice?

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Answer by Bill L
He should already have his shots. Just put the collar on him.

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What do we do with this hyperactive dog?

Question by lexintonlenny12: What do we do with this hyperactive dog?
Our dog destroys property at random, has chewed up (over time) a folding table leg. She destroyed a library book and has messed up 2 purses and other items of value. We cannot leave her home alone for 15 minutes without her finding something to break (sometimes). She constantly poos on the floor and is a royal pain in the butt to walk as he drags any and everyone across the yard… but the much older Beagle we have has gotten used to her. She’s also really sweet besides all the things above. The family I live with is strongly against making her an “outside dog”.
She’s near or barely over a year old.
And my GF and her dad brought her home without warning and since I am almost 90% or more in charge of her care…

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Answer by Sherrie C
I say you should contact Cesar Milan, The Dog Whisperer. He is AWESOME w/dogs.

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